10 Tips to Help You Overcome Wallflower Syndrome
September 28th, 2008
I just wrote a guest post for social media guru Chris Brogan discussing how I have been able to move beyond feeling shy at conferences. If you have a presentation coming up the tips really apply to public speaking engagements as well:
Heading to the BIG Conference - 10 Tips to Help You Overcome Wallflower Syndrome
The post discusses some steps that have helped me and will hopefully help you before and during the conference to make you feel more comfortable so that you can maximize your time and investment at large scale professional gatherings.
If you find the post valuable, I’d really appreciate it if you helped spread the word by sharing it on StumbleUpon or Digg.
Also, don’t forget, Chris recently published a free ebook on personal branding that is packed with valuable information, “Personal Branding for the Business Professional“
What are your goals for this week? And Surprise Pre-Launch Announcement
September 8th, 2008
I hope that you all had a very nice weekend! Last week’s post on “goals for the week” seemed to resonate fairly well with some of you and it drew a pretty good response and discussion, so I thought that I would do it again this week.
However, before we go any further, I wanted to mention, if your goals for this week (or anytime in the future) include “self-branding” or online reputation management, then you need to get yourself over to Chris Brogan’s website. Chris, who just happens to be a Boston guy, is a social media guru and all around super nice person and he has just released an eBook, “Personal Branding for the Business Professional” that is well worth your time. It’s available for FREE so do yourself a favor and go download it now!! OK back to the post. :)
Today I actually have two questions for you:
- What are your goals for the coming week?
- Beyond this week, what are you really working towards in your life?
image source: bulldog1
What are my goals for the week and what am I working towards?
How Did You Do With Your Goals Last Week? And an Announcement
September 6th, 2008
Hey Everyone - on Monday I put up a post asking, “What are your goals for the week?” The natural follow-up question at the end of the week is, how did you do?
The following people dropped by and posted some of their goals: Brian Monahan, Expert in the Rough, kelly, kazari, Glen Allsopp, Diana, Jarkko Laine, Ulla Hennig, Becky, Kelly@SHE-POWER, Success Professor, Susan, Cath Lawson and Al at 7P.
Did you complete all of the tasks and goals you listed?
Greetings everyone! How are you? As some of you might know I have recently returned from Nicaragua and now I am ready to get back to work.
(more nicaragua photos coming soon!)
I have quite a bit that I would like to accomplish this coming week and I thought that you might too.
Before I went away I received some really constructive feedback on a project that I am working on and I would like to see others out there getting support and constructive input for whatever they might like to accomplish. With this post I would like to know:
What are your goals for this coming week? What would you like to accomplish?
Today I made the STUPID mistake of thinking that I could remove my primary Google Analytics email address and update it with an address that I use more frequently. Guess again! I wound up accidentally deleting a YEAR’S worth of traffic data that I don’t think I can get back. :(
Back to square one! No more Analytic’s highs or lows for the time being…
What Happened?
For well over a year I have been using Google Analytics with no problems. However, the primary email address that the account had was one that I never use and the secondary email was my standard Yahoo account, which I always use. Trying to standardize things, I re-activated a different Google email address that more closely matches my Yahoo one in name (i.e. mark_w_hayward) and I was going to make that the primary. However, STUPIDLY, I assumed that if I deleted the primary address that I would still be able to access all of my Google accounts with the secondary Yahoo address that was available…Well, I learned that hard way that if you delete the primary address all of your data is GONE!
And I did not want anyone else to run into this problem.
I can no longer log into my Google Analytics, Google Webmaster Tools, or Google Documents. Man I am pissed at myself!
Matt Cutts, or anyone from Google Analytics, are you out there? Is there anyway I can retrieve all of that traffic data that has been lost?
Is That a Plan for 2008 In Your Pocket or Are You Just Happy to See Me?
December 27th, 2007
The year 2007 is just about done and in the books, which means we will all get to start over in 2008 with a clean slate and a new set of goals. This is truly fantastic because a lot of times goals can be like fresh produce! For the first couple of days they are all sweet smelling and perfect, with no flaws or blemishes. But, as time moves on the fruit (like some goals) becomes spoiled and eventually goes rotten. Only to be thrown in the dumpster, or tossed in the trash.
image source: twenty5pics
How many plans have you tossed in the trash?
I read some really great articles this year about ‘how to achieve success’ and almost every author stated that you have to create a viable and executable plan. However, most did not elaborate on what constitutes a good plan, so I am going to describe my general planning process here.
Really, this is the next evolution in my continuing series of articles as you work to seek personal freedom and remove yourself from a negative situation.
For some, a viable plan needs to be an actual written set of suggested activities with definable dates, milestones, and a predetermined project life cycle. While I do agree with this technique I have never really written down my plans, instead I prefer to visualize success.
Using visualization as a tool for achieving successful plan
Whether I am looking to make a life change (like escaping the cubicle ), improve my blog, or even lose some weight I believe that I have more success if I concentrate my energy on visualizing the steps that are required to see my plans through to fruition.
As opposed to the standard recommendation of writing down every minute detail. Specifically, I find if I can navigate the plan visually in my mind then I don’t necessarily need to have all of the steps to success written down, which can also lead to great flexibility.
In most cases, plans are long term beasts and not short term animals . Successful completion of plans, on any level, require:
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Hard work
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Persistence
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Dedication
Here is my blueprint for a successful plan.
When I was just about ready to complete my term of service in the Peace Corps I realized that if I did not acquire appropriate technical skills I would most likely suffer in the job market when it came time to look for employment. Listed below is my typical ‘plan creating process’ which should go hand in hand with the three items listed above.
Blueprint for planning success STEP 1: Define your problem
You cannot create a viable plan if you have not accurately defined your problem. For me, it was a lack of technical skills, but for others, especially during this time of year, it might be weight loss, or to quit a dead end job.
Once I defined the problem it was easy for me to create the goal, which when completed would allow me to overcome my technical shortcomings.
Blueprint for planning success STEP 2: Identify your goal
With my problem now defined it was rather easy to create the goal. To overcome my technical deficiency I decided to pursue a Masters degree in a technical field (Geographic Information Systems) while undertaking studies in an academic field (Geography and International Development) that I would be passionate about.
If you prefer the weight loss example here is where you would determine how many pounds (or kilos) you would like to lose (e.g. 50 pounds).
Blueprint for planning success STEP 3: Formulate the process
For me, once I have a problem and a goal identified I begin to formulate the processes and steps that will be required for me to achieve success. In the case of graduate school (for the Masters degree) I started to analyze whether my grades were good enough for acceptance, if I needed to take any standardized tests, and how much this was going to cost me (i.e. financial analysis)?
If you are following the weight loss example now is when you would start thinking about how you will reduce caloric intake and what type of exercise routine you might enjoy.
Blueprint for planning success STEP 4: Take action
OK - After you have defined your problem, identified your goal, and formulated your process, it is now time to take action . Now was the time when I started applying to graduate schools, attending interviews, and of course, getting accepted into various programs.
As far as weight loss plan and goal is concerned, now is the time to make the commitment and get out there and exercise more and eat less (the only true way to lose weight!).
Have I missed anything? What do you do to ensure that a plan is completed successfully?
Does Commenting on Blog Posts Really Increase Your Visitor Traffic - An Experiment
November 21st, 2007
One of my new goals here at MyTropicalEscape will be to experiment (I am a trained scientist after all) with helpful techniques and tips (whether it’s attracting more traffic or making money) that other bloggers are suggesting and then report back on my success, or lack thereof.
